Rebuilding Us: Marriage Podcast

Rebuilding Us: Marriage Podcast

Dana Che

Should I Stay or Leave After My Spouse’s Affair? (Healing After Infidelity)

March 25, 2025   ●   25 min

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After an affair, most spouses want to know if they should stay or leave their spouse. Infidelity, I know, can be incredibly painful, but it is oh-so-important to discuss. As part of our ongoing miniseries, "Healing After Infidelity," I'm here to tackle a question that many of you have likely grappled with: "Are you committed to rebuilding your marriage?" Whether you're in the thick of betrayal or still grappling with the aftermath, I hope to offer guidance and encouragement as you navigate this challenging terrain.

Infidelity, as many of us know, can tear at the very fabric of a relationship, leaving a trail of hurt and confusion. When I think about the conversations I’ve had—whether through coaching or discovery calls—one thing is clear: the question often emerges, "Do I put forth the effort to save my marriage, or is it time to move on?" In this episode, I share five critical questions you need to consider before making such a profound decision.

Be sure to listen to the very end and get my free resource to help you rebuild your marriage.

Resources Mentioned in this Episode:

Healing from Infidelity? Get my "Affair Checklist" to guide you along your journey.

Ep. 102 - 12 Steps to Rebuild Trust in Your Marriage

Ep.236 - What To Do If My Spouse Has Had Multiple Affairs

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