Husband Explains Why His Wife Slips Her Hand Under His Shirt
GodUpdates Contributor
December 16, 2016
Why His Wife With Dementia Slips Her Hand Under His Shirt
Brandon Stanton is a photographer turned story teller. What started as a personal photo project soon turned into the popular blog, Humans of New York. And in a recent three part post, a Brandon tells the beautiful love story of a husband and his wife with dementia. This husband meant it when he vowed in sickness and in health. And when he explains why his wife slips her hand under his shirt. . . well, just make sure you have plenty of tissues!
The Beginning
"I was nineteen. She was sixteen. Our dates were normally on Sunday. We didn't do much of anything. We were conservative. I was a farmer. We weren't those swinging type people. But every date was a little more cuddly. Then she took me to her senior prom. It was just ten miles from here —in Richmond. I was the only one there without a tuxedo. All those city folks didn't know what to make of me."
50 Years Of Love
"We celebrated our 50th wedding anniversary in Branson, Missouri. On the drive home, she kept telling me that we were going the wrong way. She was very insistent. I didn't fight her. I kept letting her turn around because I knew that eventually we'd hit the main road back to Michigan. I knew then. Her father had dementia. And so did his father. So I knew what was happening. Soon she started forgetting names."
A Higher Calling
"She has served this family her entire life. And now it's my turn to serve her. I might not have her mentally. But I have her. I can still make her smile. I can make bubbly noises, and blow on her, and she'll smile. Every morning we'll sit in this chair and we'll cuddle until noon. I rock this lady more than I rock my grandchildren."
You've got to hear this man's explanation of why he's married to multiple women!
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